Healing My Anxious Avoidant

Tracy Martinez
3 min readOct 10, 2024
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Healing from Anxious-Avoidant Attachment: A Path to Emotional Well-Being

The anxious-avoidant attachment style can create a cycle of emotional turmoil in relationships. Individuals with this attachment style often struggle with intimacy and fear of rejection, leading to conflicting feelings that can hinder their ability to form healthy connections. However, healing is possible through self-awareness, intentional practices, and supportive environments. Here’s a guide to navigating the journey toward emotional well-being.

Understanding Anxious-Avoidant Attachment

Anxious-avoidant attachment typically stems from early relationship experiences, often characterized by inconsistent caregiving. This can lead to a fear of abandonment coupled with a fear of closeness. Individuals may oscillate between craving intimacy and pushing partners away, resulting in a pattern of relationship instability.

Steps Toward Healing

Self-Reflection and Awareness

  • Recognize Patterns: Start by identifying your attachment style and understanding how it influences your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in relationships. Journaling can help you track patterns and triggers.

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Tracy Martinez
Tracy Martinez

Written by Tracy Martinez

Writer. Fur Momma. Feminist. Coffee Addict. Backspacing Machine.

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